The Return of Romance: How to Attract a Man in 2025 Who's All About Those Love-Filled Gestures
Because Who Said Chivalry Is Dead? Micro-Romance Moments Are the New Dating Currency
Because Who Said Chivalry Is Dead? Micro-Romance Moments Are the New Dating Currency
Ladies! Let's talk about something that's making a major comeback in the dating world - good old-fashioned romance! And trust me, this trend is your golden ticket to attracting the kind of man who'll make your heart flutter in all the right ways.
According to Bumble's latest survey of over 40,000 users, romance is having a serious moment right now. A whopping 55% of women in the U.S. proudly call themselves romantics. You're all craving those sweet, thoughtful gestures that make you feel special and cherished.
What Modern Romance Actually Looks Like
First things first - romance in 2025 isn't just about candlelit dinners and roses (though those are still fabulous). Today's version includes what Bumble calls "micro-mance" moments:
That perfect meme he sends that shows he gets your sense of humor
A playlist he made just for you
Inside jokes that make you both laugh uncontrollably
Morning coffee walks where you chat about everything and nothing
Nearly half of Gen Z singles say that geeking out together over shared interests is a form of intimacy. How cute is that? Bonding over your obsession with that Netflix show or both being weirdly knowledgeable about astrology creates a special connection.
How to Attract Your Romantic Man
So how do you find yourself a man who's on board with this romance revival? Here are my tried-and-true tips:
1. Be Upfront About Valuing Romance
Don't hide your romantic side! In your dating profile and early conversations, drop hints about how much you appreciate thoughtful gestures. Men who are aligned with this will pick up on it and respond in kind. The ones who aren't? They'll filter themselves out – saving you time and heartache.
2. Look for the Micro-Romance Signs
Pay attention to those small gestures early on. Does he remember details from your conversations? Does he send you things that made him think of you? These "micro-romance" moments are often better indicators of his romantic potential than grand gestures that might be for show.
3. Embrace Vulnerability
Half of women surveyed said a lack of romance negatively impacted their dating lives. Don't be afraid to communicate what makes you feel special and loved. The right guy won't see this as "high maintenance" but as helpful guidance to make you happy.
4. Consider the Best Friend Test
With the rise of the "guy best friend" phenomenon (31% of single women say they're more open with their male friends about dating), consider introducing potential partners to your trusted male friends. They can offer insights into a guy's behavior and intentions that you might miss.
Why This Matters Now More Than Ever
In these uncertain times (95% of singles say worries about the future impact how they date), finding someone who brings joy and romance into your life isn't just nice—it's necessary. With 59% of women valuing stability more now, a consistently romantic partner provides emotional security that's incredibly attractive.
Remember, 87% of Bumble users experienced positives in dating this year, including the excitement of meeting someone new and building their confidence. Romance is a two-way street, so don't forget to show your appreciation when he makes those romantic gestures.
The bottom line? In 2025, wearing your romantic heart on your sleeve isn't just acceptable—it's strategy. And the best part? It attracts men who are emotionally available, communicative, and ready to make you feel special in ways both big and small.
So tell me, ladies, what's the most romantic gesture a date has ever made for you? Drop it in the comments. I love hearing your stories, and it might give other women in our community some ideas of what to look for!